When you start seeing your worth and suddenly realize that you have always been stepped on for a very long time and you decide to stop being a doormat, you'll find it harder to stay around people who don't value you. The most important relationship you can have in life is one with yourself. If you have that, then any relationship is a PLUS and not a must.
"It’s easy to feel uncared for when people aren’t able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it’s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they’re doing doesn’t even cross their mind. They aren’t inherently bad or uncaring – they’re just busy and self-focused. And that’s okay. It’s not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn’t make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren’t very good at looking beyond their own world.
Let me tell you something you already know: The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that! - Sylvester Stallone, Rocky Balboa Don't make excuses. As John M. Richardson, Jr, "when it comes to the future, there are three kinds of people: those who let it happen, those who make it happen, and those who wonder what happened".
You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it. — Maya Angelou There will come a time when you'll look back on the journey that you had to take to get you to where you are now and you'll smile and say to yourself, “I never thought I could do it…But I did!
For what it’s worth: It’s never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing.
Don't always wait for people to tell you what to do. Suggestions are welcomed but it's your vision, don't allow critics misdirect you. Unless someone can look into the core of your heart to see the degree of your passion
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