Is she really your friend?
You are really not her friend if what you have to say about her is so bad you can’t say it in front of her.
If you are a real friend you should be able to tell her your concerns for her life to her face. If you have the need to tell others, but you haven’t found the time to tell her – red lights should be flashing.
Believe it or not, gossiping is not an intrinsic part of being female.
Women who gossip do it not because it’s a woman-thing, but because they want to elevate themselves and put other women in a place of inferiority. Gossiping is just another symptom of deeper insecurities.
Why are you friends? Do you only remember her being around whenever she could get something from you? It doesn’t even have to be material. It could just be your time or your positive energy. Does she happen to be always on the receiving side, with you dishing out ton loads of yourself or your stuff? Or is she your friend because of what you represent? It could be that your husband’s position or yours, your possessions, your talent, whatever, represents some form of achievement. Is she a friend because that link to you places her on a higher platform?
In a real friendship, appreciation, support, and loyalty must be reciprocal.
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