There are a few rare stories of women getting married to a man who had no job and in the course of the marriage he gets a good paying job. These stories are rare!
God, Make Him a Man Before I Make Him My Husband Written by Kia Speaks! It’s never my desire to speak in absolutes, but let’s be honest. There’s a significant number of women out here who just want to get married. We get so caught up in the validation that comes with “being chosen” that we don’t always put proper thought into who we are marrying. Or whether he’s a man at all.
Some things seem to be matters of common sense, but obviously, not to everyone. Some people have to have warnings written out clearly for them and even then, there’s no guarantee that they will heed the warnings, or believe that they apply to them.