For all who have ever succeeded in solving any problem, the state of their minds usually played a very important part. No one is born with a great mind, they only learn to make great and right choices as they encountered challenges in life. Success comes through strong and joyful minds. Successful people would have to choose not to be discouraged, sad, or overwhelmed by the problems they face. Your mind is important, it will lead you to either success or defeat in your marriage. To succeed you need to guard your mind, if all you do is choose to worry, complain, nag, and threaten the result would be sadness, quitting and failure.